Wife who sold a Ferrari

This is the story about a wonder woman, who has transformed at least couple of lives and the story would all have a tribute towards some of the wonder women i know, who have actually influenced my life in major ways.

First of all its the birthday of the Iron lady and none other than my wife and hence this tribute. I don’t generally use social media to express my admiration towards anyone, but certain recent events in my life (negative) mean i have to tell the world, since i wont take a future for granted. The title is because i feel she basically sold her trump card skill (singing) to the devil, so much so that she doesn't even sing a tune anymore, and i hate her for that. I really do believe she should be a celebrity taking all the limelight from our family and I believe her voice has to be heard by many. But everybody make their conscious choices and we have to respect them.

Now to start with some of the wonder women i know, i will only include the very few here and it obviously includes my wife and there is no order in this list

1. My grandmother — she was one of the most courageous lady, I have every seen and if she had the freedom of the world i truly believe she would have definitely redefined the life of many, just like she did for our family in many ways.
2. My mother — a fierce warrior, who has actually put up with many stuff she had to deal with and i respect her for many things especially the way she made us understand certain values of life.
3. My sister — there is only one who can claim this place and i am really sad that she is not around to have certain plans, I had in future for us to do. Those to dos will stay as to dos forever. She is the most energetic lady I have seen and very courageous like my grandmother. With her I have enjoyed the nooks and corner of a big city. And she used to be the go to person for me when i needed somebody to listen to.
4. My big aunt or Athai — Another fighter, who took care of me during my early career days just like she would her children. I only wish if she had been to a masterchef, what a celebrity she would have been. The world well and truly deserves to taste at leats her Pongal/Vada/Sambar or Pav Bhajis.
5. My small aunt — Someone who put with a lot of trash and is still living as cool as she was when i first saw her. Shes evergreen and no generations can challenge her.
6. My Asha teacher — I was a very average student until she made me realize that I was decent enough. She definitely turned around my academic career and surely has influenced my career as a leader for whatever short stint I had where I could play a role in defining careers.
7. My maternal big aunt — I used watch her at awe at the way she used manage her bungalows and she showed me how an elite woman would be during her prime days.

There are many more to jot but these are the ladies who actually influenced my life and thoughts in many ways. Now let me come to the main character of this story my wife.

It was a little more than a decade and a half ago, this lady who used to be a geek in school and college came into my life. We were very good friends for a long time, and still are. But things became serious when she told me about her feelings. I was still a confused fellow, who was counting my CAT scores every weekend and trying to escape IT as soon as possible. I come from a background where I am taught to sacrifice dreams to be a hero, and for that I don’t blame anyone. I always knew she would be the best match for me, but i never had the courage to tell her. This is mainly because she is the calm and I am the storm. So as soon as she told me I didn’t even hesitate a bit and jumped at the chance. But it was only then I realized that I had to get married much earlier than I actually intended to, which would in turn mean more dreams are sacrificed. But there was twist in this case, for the first time I had to make a choice between good and better. Knowing me I thought, I can bag an elite MBA seat anytime and getting the nuptial knot tied would be first priority. But one by one I started to face the challenges. How would I keep someone who has had a pretty good life until now happy, but every time I was in doubt I could see a bright smile greet me providing light from darkness. This is a lady who could have married any man at a richer class, yet she is preferring a guy who has no money to even save his own ass and doesn’t have a settled career. Fast forward tons of challenges and come 2020, that is the first time I started see her working. I had this shitty feeling inside that she didn't have a lot of work, but boy she does handle a pretty crucial role at office and she is the head of our home. Our kid cant function without her, but he can without me being around. I cant function without her, even though I was away for more than year for work I had always missed her giving me the glow from the darkness. She being beside me makes me calm, have better perspective and in turn have a better career and life. I can go on and on and on, writing about her, but trust me she is the best woman to influence my life and I am glad she is my wife, and I hope I will be able to fulfill all her dreams to reality in best ways possible.

Ending with a small PJ (poor joke) : She is born on 07, Me on 25 (2+5 = 7), and the difference between the dates is 18 (8–1 = 7)

PS: I haven't proof read this and just wrote it in a flow like a JAM. Things wouldn't be structured and I am a very shabby and a lazy writer. If you have reached here, thank you for reading and putting up with my content.